I just found this video today from my friend over at MetroDad my prayers go out to you and your wife as you deal with your father-in-laws cancer.
Some people may not get this video, especially if you have never left the US or never visited a "non-tourist" country.
This video is so powerful for me personally because my profession has taken me to around 50 different countries in the world and when you cut through all the crap, we are all human and want the same basic needs in life.
When you don't see race
When you don't see color
When you don't see religion
When you don't hear language
You find your brothers and sisters, anywhere in the world.
Hope this makes you smile :)